When my children were little, sometimes they hurt themselves in the course of their play. It usually was nothing very urgent or grave, but almost always, they came to show me their little wounds. Sometimes they needed water to clean
When Things Are Hard, With No Way Forward
Sometimes things are just hard. Uncertainty can be hard, I wrote about that last time. But sometimes certainty can, too. Like when my client, I’ll call her Kayla, learned that her 5 year-old daughter will be in
A Gift That Gifts the Giver
On retreat we offered attentiveness and reverence to the landscape, an energetic gift for the land, but also a gift for ourselves that is always accessible.
Are Goals Really the Way to Go?
Goals and resolutions are externally focused, but setting intentions is a better way to set guidelines for the life you want in the new year.
Create a Mini-Retreat Amidst Daily Life
It’s winter in the northern hemisphere, a time of short days and long nights. If we didn’t live in an artificially lit world, we would be turning inward, inclined to slow down and reflect, quietly sipping something warm before a
Are You Forgetting This In the Holiday Season?
A few years ago, I offered to coach people to find ways to have more conscious, meaningful holidays. Through that experience I got to see, close up and in a multiplicity of ways how, even with the best intentions, those
When Feelings (Big, Scary Feelings) Take Over
When my children were babies, I remember watching their feelings take over their bodies. Delight, bliss, exhaustion, fury would just wash over my child. Sometimes I felt a little envious of how flowing and free the process seemed. Babies do
What Existing Possibilities Are You Not Seeing?
Sometimes we miss seeing possibilities that are right in front of us. I’d been playing Rummykub with my son, a game with tiles that requires players to build ladders of numbers or form groups by numbers. It had been a
The Simplest Tool for Balance: Making Energetically Aligned Choices
There are so many large and small decisions we make every day without being aware of them as choices. Without measuring their cost and benefit. That’s no way to feel any sense of balance! We say yes to things because
When We Don’t Even Know What’s Keeping Us Stuck
Have you found yourself feeling thankful for clarity about what you need to be working on? I have a dear friend, whose daughter has had trouble reading throughout elementary school, in spite of everyone’s best efforts to help her